Advantures of The Quarter-Lifer

This place is for sharing the life problems, encounters and various other events that had happened, or has been happening in my quarter-life years. I've always felt I was alone with these problems, but I wasn't. If you felt like that, then be sure to read my blogs...

Wednesday, August 03, 2005

Feminists

I had a quite interesting discovery about myself the past weekend. The discovery itself is interesting however, the result is disturbing to me.

My ex is very feminist. She doesn't like it if you offer to help her lift something, or asking her anything that suggesting she is less capable than a guy. I've began to think like that; girls are very touchy about the way guys treat them, and that they are sensitive to actions of men that will suggest we are looking down on them. I personally think it's very gentlemen like to open doors for girls, and to offer help lifting heavy stuff. But anyhow...

I went to pick up a friend of mine at the airport this weekend. As her luggage comes around, my natural instinct was to go and grab it. Somehow, my mind kicked in and posed the following question: "You sure you want to grab that? You might make her think that you think she is weak". So instead, I asked a stupid question like "Do you need help with that?". Then while waiting for the second luggage, I was thinking to myself...what's up with my thinking? What happened to me?

Argh!!

I've began not to like the person I am today.

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